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    October 05

    做女儿真好

    现在最大的快乐,就是每天都有充裕的时间和爸爸妈妈通话,及时沟通我们的生活心得。

    我刚出生的时候,据说爸爸是很失望的。作为李家长子长孙的他却没能为家族把香火继续。这可能至今仍是爸爸的一个遗憾吧。

    随着我一天天地长大,爸爸对我的爱可以说是一发不可收拾。那时家里经济条件虽然很有限,但我们的精神生活相当丰富多彩。至今我还记得我小时候爸爸为我做的一首诗:
                                                                   家书吾小女,聪明又可爱。
                                                                   但愿多读书,文静出四海。
    看来那时他便有了让我出国留学的想法。

    前两天,爸爸无意翻出一张我儿时的图画。仔细端详之后,他突然觉得,我女儿那么小怎么就能画出这么漂亮的画呢?然后就觉得很内疚,对我说,和别的家长相比,他对我付出的太少了。那个时候如果听了我小学美术老师的话,一个月花八块钱,让我去学个画画。。。说不定我女儿现在来德国读的就是艺术了(玩笑)!

    事实证明,天赋是要被培养的。到了小学高年级以后,我在画画方面已经完全不是少年宫派们的对手了。不过那个时候我就完全看清了形势,早已弃画从文了。

    从文的历程也是相当艰辛的。在全大连最好的高中,我却渡过了最青涩的少年时光。平平的相貌加上平平的成绩让我体验到了人生中迄今为止最灰暗的时光。可无论我的成绩多么让人担忧,无论班上同学多么疯狂地补课,爸爸始终依然奉行他的“非投资不补课政策”。从今天来看,真佩服我们爷俩当年的勇气和毅力。要不是那时候省下的几万块钱,大学毕业后,我肯定不能直接到德国来!

    满脑子都是和爸爸的美好回忆,准备把他们都写下来,写成一本小册子,作为爸爸六十岁的生日礼物送给他。



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    爽 李wrote:
    叔叔真的很慈爱,我有天早上上班在车上还看着他嘞~~~
    3 days ago
    谢谢姐姐!
    你一个人在美国十多年了吧?真的不容易啊。看来你公婆对你很好啊,幸福!好好珍惜吧。
    我在德国时间长了有种体会,虽然这里生活很安逸,但是想融入主流社会还是很困难的。不过我想美国应该好多了,本是就是移民国家,而且华人还多。真羡慕你们啊!!
    我的skype: happydoris1984。有时间多联系,你什么时候来欧洲?
    Oct. 6
    christinewrote:
    你和你爸爸的感情真得很好,而我多年的海外生活,已经习惯了没有父母在身边的日子,有时也侥幸父母没有在身边,父母的爱是无私的,我好想彻彻底底的感受一次。而我父母给我的爱有点扭曲,反而是种压力,同时也庆幸,也是这种压力,让我在美国安家,反而在异国的土地上,深深地享受着公公婆婆的无私的爱,在这里提前住你爸爸生日快乐。
    Oct. 6

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